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Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Salvador says:How to Get Your Boyfriend Back

1. Properly send your man signals that you have already totally accepted the breakup even though the reality is otherwise.
Making your man believe that you have already moved on usually hits his ego and stirs him to think whether he is your loss or you are his loss. Showing no desperation in winning him back conversely makes him desperate to come back to prove his worth.
Also, older men no longer find women who are possessive and obsessive cute and lovable. Mature men appreciate women who can be their partner rather than their pet.
2. It pays to always look your best - internally and externally. Maintaining inner and outer beauty will, in no way, drive your man away.
Take advantage of how well you know him. Put on a dress that has the color and style he likes; set your hair in ways he finds sexy; and use the perfume you were using to sweep him back to the times when you were still together.
Having a girlfriend with a good heart and a prudent mind is nothing but trophy for most men.
Any ex-boyfriend couldn't help but snivel on the sight of a beautiful woman with a golden heart being admired and respected by other men.
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3. Maintain warm relationships with your man’s friends and family members.
Being warm with his crowd usually results to complimentary award-winning advertisement on how good you are as a friend and a family member.
Being nice with his clique shows how diplomatic you are in dealing with issues. He may also perceive you as a good partner in both good and not-so-good times.
4. Always be yourself.
Being the woman that you really are can help rekindle old flame. Who you truly are was the reason why he became attracted to you. Maybe it's the perfect time to look at yourself and retrospect. Have you changed a lot? Are the changes because of improvement or of worsening?
While doing all these, you are also helping yourself become the esteemed woman you need to be whether he comes back to your or not. If he comes back, it means you are really wired and meant for each other. If he doesn't, then rejoice because you have already started spreading your wings and are now more prepared to take off and soar to the vast heavens of possibilities and opportunities for growth and successes.

Source: lovetips.com

Salvador says: Sensual kissing love tips

One of the most important aspects of learning to become an irresistible kisser is to use a variety of sensual kisses on your lover. It is said that variety is the spice of life, and the same definitely applies for your love life.
So if you’re ready to add some zest and spice things up a bit, here are a few sensual kissing love tips to help you romantically seduce your lover:

1. Arctic Love Kiss

After sucking on an ice cube until it melts in your mouth, approach your lover from behind and softly lick them on the back of the neck. When they turn around suddenly due to the chilling sensation, surprise them with a succulent and sensational kiss on their lips.

2. Body Crave Kisses

Begin kissing your lover on his or her forehead, and then you move slowly down to their cheeks, tip of their nose, and then their lips. Slightly lick your lover’s lips right before you kiss them as if you were wetting your own.
Allow your kiss to begin slowly and then let it build up. And as your lover gets really into the kiss and begins to crave for more, slowly pull away and begin to kiss the rest of their body.

3. Comfort Kiss

Gently grasp your lover’s head and pull it towards you. Tenderly kiss them on their eyelids and then give them a warm, soothing kiss on their lips. After that, kiss them on their lips, look them deeply in their eyes and tell your lover something sincere and romantic.

4.Lady Love Kiss

Guys, gently reach out and take hold of your woman’s hands and gently cradle them in your own. Lift her hands to your lips and kiss them both. Then, raise them up and kiss both of her wrists.


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5. Love Drunk Body Kisses

While sitting down in a romantic setting, make sure that you lover is sitting in front of you with his or her top completely off. Begin kissing them on their back as you softly grasp their shoulders from behind.
Allow your kisses to move from the top of their shoulders to their lower back. Ensure that you caress their shoulders gently as you kiss them. And while kissing them, breathe lightly on their body in order to excite their senses with your warm breath.
Continue kissing along the middle of their back while lightly breathing as you kiss their body. This will send chills up your lover’s spine.

6. Romantic Hickey Kiss

When it comes to erotic foreplay, nothing else beats a hickey kiss. The point of this kind of kiss is not to draw blood from your partner, but to leave a sexy “love” mark on them as proof of your undying affection.
Kiss your lover on his or her neck, nibble with your lips and enjoy yourself on their skin until they crave for more.

7. Sweet Seduction Kiss

Ladies, wrap your arms around your man’s neck and gaze deeply into his eyes. Gently pull his face towards yours and kiss him on his lips. Then let your hands glide along the side of his neck onto his chest and caress him.
Pull your lips away from his until your lips are lightly touching his. Then seductively look into his eyes again as you pull him in tighter for a passionate kiss.

8. Tropical Tease Kiss

Softly lick your lover on his or her lips until they become warm and moist. Afterward, blow on their lips to cool them off again. The cool air running over their moist lips will create a delightful sensation.
Continue doing this again and again while at the same time kissing your lover on the side of their lips to tease and tantalize them even more.

Source: romanticlovetips.com

Salvador says:The 5 Things Men Wish Women Knew About Them

When it comes to relationships, some women out there are just as clueless when it comes to men as men are when it comes to dealing with women. Although men may appear to be the simpler ones between the two sexes, men can pose a bit of a mystery to the uninitiated woman.
So to shed some light on the situation, here is a list of the five things that men wish women knew about them that any woman can use either now or in the future to help her better communicate with men more effectively:

1. Men Enjoy a Challenge Not a Chore

Men enjoy a challenge from the women that they are interested in. This makes things more interesting for both men and women. But remember, a challenge is one thing, but a chore is something else completely.
Challenges can turn into chores pretty easy if a guy can’t see some sort of progression in what he’s doing. There has got to be a balance. Men enjoy a bit of work to get the girl they want, but don’t forget that they aren’t mind readers.

2.Men Enjoy Just Having Women Around

Men have an innate desire to want women to simply enjoy their company. Regardless of what they can offer in terms of being a provider or protector, men enjoy it when women just want to be in their presence for no particular reason.
Consider this the next time you’re hanging out with a guy and you just subtly let him know that you just adore it when he’s around for no particular reason.
Men love being wanted just for being who they are. Learn to simply bask in his presence and not only will he feel special, he’ll ensure that you feel special being with him.

3. Guy Time Is a Necessity

If a man has friends then that’s a good thing. You should want him to want to spend time with his buddies on a regular basis. This is a healthy aspect for the life of a well-rounded man. This actually ensures that he’s not some crazy outcast who is incapable of functioning in normal society.
Some women may actually undervalue the significance of a guy needing time to bond with his buddies. Without this male bonding time, a man could become pretty out of touch with how he relates to other men. He may also lose his manly drive to achieve and conquer that comes from a healthy support of male friends.
He needs his time with the guys, and if you can communicate that you understand that it is a necessity, he will love you even more for it.

4. Men DO Like It When Women Initiate Sex

The interesting thing about men is that as crazy as they are about sex, they just love it when their special lady is just as crazy about it as they are.
Guys love it when a woman can actually take some initiative when it comes to having sex. Men like sex, men want sex, men need sex. By taking some initiative and making sure that he is more than happy in the sex department, you will ensure that whenever he thinks about sex his mind will go directly on you.

5. Men Want To Be Needed

One of the fastest ways you can lose a guy’s attention and interest is to communicate to him that you don’t need him around.
This doesn’t mean that you should have your world revolve around him, but you should consider that he does have something of value to offer you as a woman in a relationship. And also that he has something that you do not want to take for granted.
If you want anyone to perform a certain way or to develop a certain quality, imply it. The same goes for dealing with men. If you want your guy to actually help out more, don’t say that you want him to help out more, instead tell him that you need his help and that you enjoy having him around because he is needed.
This will not make you appear weak, but rather it is all a part of making a man feel special. It nurtures his strength and his belief that you need him in a good way. All men enjoy it when they are perceived as valuable to their significant other.

Source: romanticlovetips.com

Tuesday, August 16, 2011


Riza says: 99 Facts about Guys that Girls should know!


Here with me, I’ve got 99 facts!
  1. Guys don’t actually look after good-looking girls. they prefer neat and presentable girls.
  2. Guys hate other flirts.
  3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
  4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.
  5. Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
  6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
  7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.
  8. Guys go crazy over a girl’s smile.
  9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.
  10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
  11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them. …….dont think so
  12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking! but do not generalise
  13. Guys cry!!!
  14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
  15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
  16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
  17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.
  18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?!..uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
  19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands……yeh rite – Whatever.
  20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
  21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.
  22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow”. So true.
  23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
  24. Guys hate gays!
  25. Guys love their moms.
  26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
  27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.
  28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
  29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
  30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
  31. Like Eve, girls are guys̢۪ weaknesses.
  32. Guys are very open about themselves.
  33. It’s good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.
  34. No guy is bad when he is courting
  35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
  36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.
  37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
  38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice…….very true.
  39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
  40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
  41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts. ……..sumtimes.
  42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
  43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
  44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
  45. Guys think too much.
  46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.
  47. Girls’ height doesn’t really matter to a guy but her weight does!……very true.
  48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!
  49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
  50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.
  51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
  52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.
  53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
  54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
  55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed P**** with their girlfriends…..sumtimes depends wen they want sumat.
  56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.
  57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
  58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me”……sumtimes.
  59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.
  60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
  61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him….very important.
  62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
  63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
  64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
  65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.
  66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
  67. A guy would waste his time over video games and football, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
  68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake. ….they love u regardless.
  69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!……true but only wen the guys are ready 2be settled down.
  70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
  71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
  72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
  73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.
  74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
  75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
  76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.
  77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
  78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
  79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
  80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.
  81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.
  82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
  83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.
  84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
  85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
  86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed by you or he’s criticizing you.
  87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
  88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
  89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
  90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
  91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
  92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
  93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
  94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
  95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
  96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!
  97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.
  98. Guys hate girls who overreact. ……sumtimes.
  99. Guys love you more than you love them IF they are serious in your relationships.




source: felixker.com

Riza says: 99 facts guys LOVE about girls ♥


1. Guys prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys love flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn’t understand you, it simply means you’re not thinking the way he is.
5. “Are you doing something?” or “Have you eaten already?” are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he’ll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys love a girl’s smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl’s attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can’t. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!
13. Guys cry!!!!!!!!
14. Don’t provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy’s heart, there’s no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like “You know what?!..uh…never mind!” would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
19. Guys love it when girls touch their hands.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged “umm” or makes any excuses when you’re asking him to do you a favor, he’s actually saying that he doesn’t like you and he can’t lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says “no”, a guy hears it as “try again tomorrow.”
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else
25. Guys love their moms.
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn’t mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve, girls are guys EUR™ weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. It’s good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don’t let him wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting.
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they’re not that much pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don’t need to give advice.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys’ fantasies are unlimited.
47. Guys hate it when girls talk about their period
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. It’s not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they’ve been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he’s too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won’t be matured and grow up.
53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame
themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he’s sweating. You’ll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he’s just actually saying, “Please come and listen to me.”
59. Guys don’t really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there’s no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don’t like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy’s friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
72. Don’t be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
73. Don’t be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you’ll be surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
76. Guys don’t comprehend the statement “Get lost” too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
79. Guys don’t care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they’ll realize they’re wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He’s just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys’ weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he’s amazed of you or he’s criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you’re with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can’t sleep if he doesn’t hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys’ things. Not their hair!
97. If a guy says you’re beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.



source:bypassfanpages.com

Riza says : for all broken hearted.. :)

Sunday, August 14, 2011

Riza says: 10 Amazing Facts about Love




Love is a light of your life. Everyone know that love increases our live's quality. If still there are some people who don't believe this, we have found some funny scientific love facts to prove this theory:)
1. People are more likely to tilt their heads to the right when kissing instead of the left (65 percent of people go to the right!)

2. The oldest known love song was written 4,000 years ago and comes from an area between the Tigris and Euphrates Rivers.
3. One in five long-term love relationships began with one or both partners being involved with others.

4. Falling in love can induce a calming effect on the body and mind and raises levels of nerve growth factor for about a year, which helps to restore the nervous system and improves the lover’s memory.
5. Love can also exert the same stress on your body as deep fear. You see the same physiological responses—pupil dilation, sweaty palms, and increased heart rate.

6. Philadelphia International Airport finished as the No. 1 best airport for making a love connection, according to a recent survey.
7. Men who kiss their wives in the morning live five years longer than those who don't.
8. The tradition of the diamond engagement ring comes from Archduke Maximillian of Austria who, in the 15th century, gave a diamond ring to his fiancée, Mary of Burgundy.

9. People who are newly in love produce decreased levels of the hormone serotonin —as low as levels seen in people with obsessive-compulsive disorder. Perhaps that’s why it’s so easy to feel obsessed when you’re smitten.
10. According to mathematical theory, we should date a dozen people before choosing a long-term partner; that provides the best chance that you’ll make a love match.


source: amolife.com


Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Riza says: Basic Needs

             In order to understand what Love and Relationship means, first we need to understand ourselves because understanding ourselves and other is an understanding our basic needs which are the physiological and psychological needs.
            The physiological needs or wants include satisfaction of hunger and thirst, self- preservation, satisfaction or sublimation of sexual drives, growth and activity. While psychological needs stem from the mind’s requirements for love, esteem, and safety.
            And if we fully understand this level of understanding, that must be satisfied at a minimal level at least, in order for the human being to live, we can learn now understanding ourselves in relation to others, like Sibling Relationships in the Family, Relationships outside the family, Love- Infatuation Differences, Relationship Between Attraction and Dating and m,any more level of relationships.


Source: Westlake, Helen Gum, Relationships A Study in Human Behavior. Gin and Company, Lexington, Massachusetts, 1972






Riza says: Kinds of Love that enhance a mature relationship

For a Lasting Love Relationship, the three kinds of Love that enhance a mature relationship are:



1.  Romantic Love – is often described as the Love of the courtship and honeymoon. This Love is the smile across a room, the kiss on the nape of the neck while doing something, the bouquet of roses, the thoughtful note, and the hand that pats a tire shoulder.


2. Intellectual Love- this is the respect for the other’s person’s intelligence, his integrity, and hi opinion, and the willingness to try to understand his point of view. This Love is probably the most important of all three. The respect for the intellect of another person is the basic foundation of conversation and communication without a sharing of ideas, ideals, opinions, and thoughts as well as a humor, a couple cannot build companionship. Intellectual love is basic of all relationships and it is an integral part of a lasting marriage relationship.

3.   Sexual Love - this is the joy of the other person’s embrace, the warmth of physical closeness and the desire to be the reciprocal parent of a child that may be created from this love. In order to grow this love, the other components must be present.

Sex add spice to a relationship and sometimes love is often identified and confused with sex.







Source: Westlake, Helen Gum, Relationships A Study in Human Behavior. Gin and Company, Lexington, Massachusetts, 1972



Monday, August 8, 2011

Salvador says: How exercise strenghtens a relationship

1. Attracting your partner- Exercise can play a big role in maintaining or improving your weight and sexual relationship with your partner.
2. Improved mood- Exercise improves one eating behaviour, reduces stress hormones that causes you to overeat.
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3. Stronger bonding- Schedule once a week out of town swimming or diving activities or walk together 3-6 days a week.
4. Stress management- Staying healthy will decrease your financial stress by not spending much on hospitalization and medication.

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Salvador says: Practical tips on making marriage work through efficient money handling

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1. Before your marriage begins, make and agree on the ground rules on how you will live according to your income.
2. Never delude yourself into believing that your spouses income is permanent.
3. Be cautious and prudent about spending cash to relatives and friends.
4. Buy only what's necessary. Never have an understanding of accumulation.
5. Account for every centavo spent. The more prudent spouse must disburse the money and the other called into consultation regularly.

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Salvador says: Ways to keep intimacy in your marriage

1. Share Thoughts- Besides doing things together, talked about the experience. It keeps us in touch with each others thought in life.
2. Speak Gently- Modulated voices encourage a couple to listen to each other.

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3. Hug, Smile, Cuddle, Laugh Together- The day with gestures that affirm each other. Touch each other constantly with hands and eyes, notes and text messages.
4. Share Meals- Some of the most important decisions and agreements have been made over the dinner table.
5. Remember the spouse is not the enemy- We do not always agree on thing but cultivating a mind of that we are on the same side helps to keep discussions reasonable.


Source: PDI